Retreat for Women

72 Hours in Paris Recap | Boudoir Photoshoots + Parisian Lingerie!

In March 2024, Brooklyn Boudoir, along with Sugar Cookies Lingerie, took 6 lucky women to Paris, and the trip was unforgettable …

For our first ever boudoir retreat overseas, we not only wanted to celebrate ourselves through boudoir and lingerie, we wanted to do it with the Paris je ne sais quoi. Each experience in our journey held true to the theme of female empowerment through fashion, photography and freedom of expression. As one Parisian woman said to me, “Your manifesto and love of women shows up in your work,” and this is one of the highest complements she could have given to me.

This trip has been a dream of mine for years, and if felt so good to use both my photography skills and my event producing skills from my previous career to make it happen. Read on for a full recap!

Imagine… You arrive in a picturesque European city and are welcomed to a Pinterest level apartment overlooking the Eiffel Tower. The room is filled with pieces from Atelier Amour ready for you to admire and shop. Atelier Amour is female owned and operated, and one of my favorite brands to photograph (you will definitely recognize them from my instagram feed). Champagne is flowing and Parisian snacks are plentiful as you meet and mingle with fellow lingerie and boudoir lovers. The next morning you get glamorous for your first shoot through the beautiful city. This is how Brooklyn Boudoir and Sugar Cookies welcome you to Paris!

Day 1

For our US clients, photos at the Eiffel Tower were a must. From Rue de l'Université (a popular photo destination for travel influencers) to the Trocadero itself, we snapped iconic images in front of the Iron Lady.

Next up was a trip to the beautiful Musee Yves Saint Laurent. On display was a collection of pieces from one of YSL’s beloved artistic expressions, sheer fabrics. It was completely on-brand for our lingerie + boudoir themes! YSL loved the idea of the juxtaposition between clothing which is meant to cover or conceal you and using transparent fabric to instead create intrigue and most of all, freedom. He believed in the liberation of women and sought to empower them through his silhouettes and fabrications. We saw sheer tops paired with trousers, bras worn as tops under blazers and lace cut outs galore. For lingerie lovers this was the perfect way to get inspired and in the spirit for boudoir photoshoots!

That evening our crew made their way to the Aubade showroom in the fabulous Les Halles neighborhood. When we stepped off the elevator we entered a lingerie fan’s dreamworld, a beautiful showroom surrounded by a balcony overlooking the city. We sipped champagne and snacked on decadent treats while we got to view their new collection in a mini fashion show. There was a phonebook encouraging us all to “Live Your Desire” and there were gift bags of course. It was truly the VIP treatment!

Day 2

The next morning we were in for a special treat. An intimate chat with iconic French brand, Cadolle. Patricia, whose family founded the brand and still operates it today, took us through their incredible history sharing intimate knowledge and stories. After our time in their private atelier we took a stroll to their boutique where we had the pleasure of shopping their luxurious corsets. I, of course, needed to buy one. Paired with a blazer I felt like Madonna circa Express Yourself and I was loving it.

Everyone got some free time in the afternoon, then we met up again at the Lise Charmel storefront with the 6th arr, for another unique lingerie- related experience. We shopped their latest collection, enjoyed a champagne tasting and some sweet Parisian treats. We also got to see their atelier, where the designers work along side seamstresses to construct the classy and feminine work they are known for. Then, a surprise awaited us as French artist Caroline Montigneaux drew each of our attendees in her signature style. There were even more gift bags, and it was a truly unforgettable night!

And we weren’t done yet! No trip to Paris is complete without a dinner cruise on the Seine. There is no better way to see the city than a dreamy trip down the river watching the lights twinkle and streets come alive. En route to the riverboat, we snapped some more photos at the famous Bir Hakim Bridge, another lesser know spot for travel bloggers and featured in the movie Inception.

Day 3

On our last day, it was the culmination of all the experiences we shared, and my big day as our ladies were treated to their very own Brooklyn Boudoir photoshoot, in Paris! The lingerie we saw and tried on, the inspiration we received and the influence of Paris itself prepared everyone for their private boudoir shoot. With a perfect Parisian apartment as the backdrop and a balcony overlooking the Eiffel Tower, all you need is hair, makeup and fabulous lingerie to pose in! Luckily we had all that and more covered.

Before we bid our farewell to France we had to attend the most epic cabaret in the world, Crazy Horse. Women’s power, liberation and beauty followed us everywhere we went in Paris and we couldn’t think of a better way to celebrate than with the fabulous performers of Crazy Horse. Just being in the red velvet venue felt iconic as we sipped our last glass of champagne and cheered on the dancers. What a way to end our 72 Hours!

But words and photos are not enough to describe 72 Hours in Paris … you just had to be there. ;)

Since I’ve gotten home the #1 question I’ve gotten is, “Will you be doing it again?” and after the success of this trip, the answer is a resounding YES!

Follow along and stay tuned for our next announcement you won’t want to miss.

Until then, au revoir. 

xoxo, Stephanie

Paris Boudoir Photoshoot With Brooklyn Boudoir + Sugar Cookies!

Today I'm very excited to invite you on an extraordinary journey with me to the heart of Paris, where we'll create unforgettable memories and capture your unique beauty in the most enchanting way.

Discovering the Magic of Paris

Are you ready to immerse yourself in the enchanting world of Paris? This charming city is a treasure trove of culture, art, and history, and it's the perfect backdrop for your boudoir experience. We'll explore iconic landmarks like the Eiffel Tower and the Moulin Rouge, savor delicious croissants at quaint cafes, and enjoy an evening dinner cruise down the Seine River. Paris oozes romance from every cobblestone street, making it the perfect place to feel empowered and beautiful.

Capturing Your Confidence

My goal is to celebrate your uniqueness and empower you through boudoir photography. In the heart of Paris, we'll create two extraordinary photoshoots that capture your essence like never before.

The first photoshoot will see you dressed to the nines against the iconic backdrop of the Eiffel Tower. You'll be the star of your own Parisian fairytale, exuding elegance and confidence as we capture the magic of this timeless landmark.

The second part of our journey takes us to a private, luxurious Parisian apartment, complete with a balcony and stunning Eiffel Tower views. Here, you'll indulge in a more intimate experience, wearing luxe lingerie that accentuates your natural beauty. 

A Transformational Experience

Imagine you in the heart of Paris, surrounded by the elegance and beauty of this city, experiencing a one-of-a-kind opportunity that will leave you feeling empowered and radiant. This is an immersive experience that goes beyond your expectations. As a boudoir photographer, I'm dedicated to creating a safe and comfortable space where you can express yourself freely. Together, we'll unveil the most confident and authentic version of you.

Personalized and Tailored Sessions

Our journey in Paris is about creating art. Every woman is unique, and your boudoir session will be tailored to reflect your individuality. The boudoir experience is about discovering your inner strength and celebrating your body. Paris is the perfect setting to boost your confidence and empower yourself. Imagine standing beneath the Eiffel Tower, feeling radiant and fearless. Our time together will be a reminder that you are beautiful, strong, and capable of achieving anything you set your mind to.

After our adventure in Paris, you'll receive a collection of stunning images that celebrate your beauty. These photographs will serve as a timeless reminder of your strength and the magical moments we shared in the City of Love. The artwork we create together will be a treasure that you can admire and cherish forever.

Black Friday Early Bird Pricing

If you're as excited as I am about this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, now is the perfect time to secure your spot. Our early bird pricing for this Paris adventure ends on Black Friday. Don't miss out on this special offer to join me in creating memories that will last a lifetime. Be sure to reserve your place today and seize this fantastic deal.

Why Paris? Why Now?

Paris isn't just a city; it's a feeling. The exquisite blend of history, culture, and romance sets the stage for an unforgettable boudoir experience. And the time to embark on this incredible journey is now. Life is short, and every moment is an opportunity to celebrate your strength and beauty. Paris will provide the backdrop for an adventure that's as unique and exceptional as you are.

Join Me in Paris with Brooklyn Boudoir Photography

I invite you to take this incredible journey with me. As an award-winning boudoir photographer with a passion for capturing the essence of women, I am committed to celebrating your beauty and empowering you through boudoir photography. This experience in Paris is a unique opportunity to embrace your confidence, create stunning art, and make unforgettable memories in one of the world's most enchanting cities. Don't miss out on our Black Friday early bird pricing – reserve your spot today and join me in Paris for an adventure that will leave you feeling beautiful, empowered, and utterly enchanted. Paris is calling, and I can't wait to capture your radiance amidst its timeless charm.

72 Hours in Paris with Brooklyn Boudoir + Sugar Cookies!

Paris is always a good idea.

Fall in love with yourself. In Paris.

Visualize Paris in the Spring - the smell of baguettes and coffee in the streets, a cool nip in the air, the trees just starting to bloom again, the Eiffel Tower standing before you…

Envision yourself sipping champagne at a private lingerie fitting in the lingerie capital of the world, with the help of New York City’s premiere lingerie experts by your side…

Imagine a Brooklyn Boudoir photoshoot, but with Paris as your backdrop, feeling your confidence, the beauty within you, and living life to it’s fullest…

Then consider what it might be like to bring that same self-love, glamour and confidence back to your everyday life.

Brooklyn Boudoir and Sugar Cookies are teaming up again to make this dream happen!

* Join us for 72 hours in Paris! *

Enjoy private lingerie fittings, shopping, a dinner cruise down the Seine, as well as TWO photoshoots: one dressed to the nines at the Eiffel Tower and one… well, less dressed in luxe lingerie for a private boudoir shoot at a stunning Parisian apartment (with balcony and Eiffel Tower views of course!!)

We’ll explore art museums, drink coffee by day and champagne by night, and top it all off with an evening at the Moulin Rouge.

Why Paris?

A boudoir shoot in Paris has been my very own “dream shoot” since I first learned about Boudoir photography. Boudoir and Paris go hand in hand, as does Paris and luxe lingerie. The experts at Sugar Cookies actually specialize in French lingerie! This collaboration has been a match made in heaven from the start.

Our 2023 boudoir retreat in NYC was a dream come true, and we are excited to take the experience worldwide, starting with the City of Light. We will be keeping the group small and intimate to ensure the same attention to detail and customer service our clients are accustomed to.

Event Details

March 14 - 16, 2024

  • Boudoir Photoshoot at a classic Parisian Apartment with balcony views of the Eiffel Tower

  • Individual + Group Photoshoot at the Eiffel Tower

  • Welcome cocktail party at a chic Parisian apartment

  • Evening Dinner Cruise down the Seine River

  • Luxury shopping in NYC and Paris

  • Expert Lingerie Styling and Fittings

  • Private museum tour

  • An unforgettable evening at the Moulin Rouge

  • Endless champagne

  • And a few more surprises along the way

$4000

$3800 Special Pricing through Valentine’s Day

* Ticket does not include flight transportation, accommodations, or meals, except for Seine dinner cruise and Crazy Horse*




A Recap of the Very First Boudoir in the City Event | An Iconic New York City Weekend

Earlier this summer I co-hosted a fabulous boudoir retreat with my favorite lingerie shop, Sugar Cookies and it was an amazing time. Here’s a recap:

About 2 years ago, I teamed up with Sugar Cookies NYC, a boutique I already loved, to bring boudoir into their shop for mini shoots a few times a year. We always had such a good time with our events, and so we wanted to find a way to take these in-store events to new heights. Each time we hosted mini Boudoir photoshoots at Sugar Cookies, we were delighted to see women of all ages, sizes and walks of life coming together to shop and cheer each other on as they got their photos taken. What we aimed to do with Boudoir in the City was bring a group like this together for a full weekend to connect, empower each other, and enjoy luxurious perks as an act of self love and self care… and I’m going to say we succeeded!

The weekend began with private shopping appointments full of bubbly and lots of lingerie. Attendees shopped on their own or with a friend as we discussed the most flattering silhouettes, the best ways to pose and what to expect from their upcoming photoshoot. This was the perfect introduction to our retreat and gave everyone the opportunity to get in the Boudoir mood! 

Later that evening we headed downtown to the iconic Duane Park for a burlesque dinner show. I had been once before and it felt like the obvious choice for our retreat. The Duane Park experience is nothing short of decadent from start to finish. From the decor to the cocktails to the incredible performers, every detail is of the place is just perfect. A live band and singer accompanied glamorous burlesque performers as we ate a beautiful three course meal and sipped on Rosé. We couldn’t think of a better way to celebrate confidence and to inspire each other for the following day of photoshoots.

Finally the day had come! Attendees were welcomed to the beautiful Wythe Hotel and led upstairs to our room drenched in sunlight and enveloped by a view of the New York City skyline. Bubbly, snacks, and lingerie awaited as I prepared each attendee for an epic photoshoot.

All of our attendees brought their brand new lingerie pieces from Sugar Cookies and posed all throughout the gorgeous room. This was a very special opportunity to shoot with me outside of the studio! After their shoot, many attendees took to the stunning rooftop of the Wythe for a celebratory cocktail. What a dream!

I even got to photograph my style icon, Susanne, the owner of Sugar Cookies (finally!) in some amazing silk pajamas by Skin Worldwide. These pjs made such a splash when Susanne wore them to the Curve Expo a week prior - literally everyone stopped her to ask about her look. It’s the perfect daytime or bedtime look. And great news - Susanne will start selling these pjs at the shop later this summer. It’s always such a special experience photographing a woman you admire. More images from that shoot will be coming soon.

Our ultimate goal for Boudoir in the City was to allow space for women to simply enjoy and indulge in some of the most unique experiences New York City has to offer. We had women from the city and from farther away joining us, and we loved sharing a full weekend dedicated to celebrating and empowering yourself through glamour.

If you missed the retreat, fear not - I will be teaming up with Sugar Cookies once again for something that’s … shall we say...next level. But before we make the big announcement we want your input! Our next retreat requires a flight & will combine all the fabulous elements of past events into one epic mini trip. 

So whether you attended this retreat OR if you missed our Boudoir in the City weekend & are interested in a glamorous getaway in the future, we’d love for you to fill out this quick questionnaire so we can tailor our next experience to YOU.

xoxo,

Stephanie

A Conversation with Susanne Alvarado, Owner of Sugar Cookies Lingerie in NYC

Susanne Alvarado in Costa Rica

Susanne Alvarado wearing the Skin Reyna Caftan in Costa Rica

If you’re lucky, and if you’ve followed my pre-shoot recommendations, you’ll have crossed paths with Susanne Alvarado. It’s no secret that her shop, Sugar Cookies, is my favorite lingerie boutique in New York City, and that she and I take every opportunity we can to collaborate in serving our clients. And so, I wanted to interview Susanne and give everyone here a peek at the inspiring woman behind the business. Read on and you’ll see why she’s such an inspiration to me and so many others.

Let’s talk a little bit about how you got started. Can you tell us a little bit about yourself and what led you to creating Sugar Cookies?

I’m a firm believer that frustration opens the doors to something better. In my early career, I worked for two renowned lingerie brands. One of them, at that time, held the title of America's largest lingerie retailer. They valued their staff and invested heavily in hiring, retention, and fit training, which involved weeks of onboarding before working on the sales floor. I am grateful for the years I spent there, as I learned the fundamentals of lingerie and the importance of employee and customer satisfaction.

Later, I was hired to manage the lingerie department in an iconic luxury department store on Fifth Avenue. It was a remarkable opportunity, although the store is no longer in business. There, I had the privilege of working with exquisite European luxury lingerie brands, witnessing the intricate craftsmanship that went into each garment, from French laces to hand-stitched pieces. It was enlightening to see how Europeans approached lingerie differently, considering it an essential part of their daily attire.

However, I encountered frustration with the lack of sizing options at that company. On the sales floor, I would witness customers desiring beautiful lingerie sets but facing limitations in sizes, mainly ranging from B and C cups up to a 36 band size. Despite voicing my concerns to higher management, no changes were made. The department was visually appealing, but customers would leave empty-handed due to the lack of options in their size.

Realizing that my recommendations would never be implemented, I made the bold decision to leave and open Sugar Cookies, in my neighborhood of Chelsea, NYC in 2008. At that time, Chelsea had a different vibe, primarily attracting artists, men, and older individuals. It was a risk worth taking, knowing that I could always return to my previous jobs or similar roles in the industry if needed. Now, after 15 years, I couldn't be happier. Every day, I connect with customers and ensure that I provide them with the right products and sizes to meet their needs.

We believe Lingerie and Boudoir go hand in hand in making someone feel empowered. What do you think makes Lingerie so transformative and powerful?

Lingerie is often overlooked as a mere afterthought, despite being the first layer of clothing we put on. Some may question its purpose if no one will see it, but that's the wrong perspective. Well-fitting lingerie plays a crucial role in how your clothes fit and how you feel. It boosts your confidence, even if it's just for yourself.

Sugar Cookies NYC lingerie Boutique

What is a common pitfall you find women encounter when lingerie shopping?

Many women often complain about the discomfort of bras or lingerie, but the truth is that most of the discomfort stems from wearing the wrong size. When you wear the correct size, it should feel effortless without any pinching or digging. Another important factor to consider is that our bodies change over time, and even between seasons, depending on our lifestyle. It’s essential to get fitted by a professional fitter when lingerie shopping.

What do you consider the absolute must haves in your lingerie wardrobe?

Not necessarily in this order but all must haves:

1. Classic Black Lace Set… garter belt recommended but not a deal breaker. 

2. Bodysuit

3. Bustier

4. Strapless Bra/Multiway Bra

5. Cheeky Boyshort

6. T-shirt Bra

7. Sexy Slip

8. Silk or Lace Robe

9. Seamless Bottoms

10. Shapewear


Do you personally have a favorite style of lingerie? Or better yet, what would be your go to lingerie for your own Boudoir shoot?


That’s difficult to answer… I’m a Gemini and that duality often has me playing both sides. I could tell you that I prefer classic, romantic lingerie styles then the next time you ask I’ll say I’m all about adventurous, bondage looks. I guess it’s a good thing that I’m a gemini because I’m constantly curious and open minded which is beneficial when I do my lingerie buying. If I were doing a Boudoir shoot with you next month I would say any of the latest pieces from Bordelle… I’m in an adventurous mood!


Similar to a boudoir photoshoot, shopping for lingerie can be intimidating. What would you tell someone who is nervous to come into the boutique?


Come on in! There’s nothing to be nervous about, our boutique carries exquisite, fancy lingerie but we are super low key and not pretentious. My staff and I have been in the lingerie industry for several years and make it a point to treat every customer equally and give them our undivided attention when they book an appointment with us. We listen to your needs, likes and dislikes then once we’ve fulfilled your wishes we’ll show you something you might have never thought of trying on but then must have.

At this point we’ve had three Boudoir & Bubbles events at the boutique and we’re already looking forward to the next one! What do you love about this event & working together? And what do you think attracts people to attend?

We make it easy for you! The enchantment of a boudoir shoot has entranced countless women, yet for some, taking that initial step can feel intimidating... Who is the ideal boudoir photographer for me, and where can I discover exquisite boudoir lingerie that makes me feel confident & sexy? This is precisely where our events come into play – they offer the perfect opportunity to venture into the world of boudoir and get a taste of what it's all about.

What distinguishes our events  lies not only in the breathtaking photos created  but also in the way women uplift and empower one another. It's a truly enchanting experience to see diverse women supporting each other in such a positive and uplifting environment where strangers become friends. Each event leaves me overjoyed and energized to plan the next one.


What’s next for you and Sugar Cookies? 


Our partnership with Brooklyn Boudoir has been nothing short of amazing! As we continue to collaborate with Stephanie, we're ready to embark on other exciting cities, exploring new experiences, and even venturing overseas. Our Boudoir retreats opportunities are limitless so stay tuned!


THANK YOU, SUSANNE!

Sugar Cookies is located at:

27 West 20th Street, Suite 503 New York, NY 10011

Appointments are encouraged. Email or call directly to make an appointment: info@sugarcookiesnyc.com

212-242-6963

And check out their latest summer offerings HERE.

Sugar Cookies x Brooklyn Boudoir Present a New York City Boudoir & Lingerie Photoshoot Retreat!

💥 Big news! 💥

Sugar Cookies x Brooklyn Boudoir present: Boudoir in the City

A Lingerie and Boudoir Experience in NYC

August 4 - 6, 2023

Woman Standing at window with NYC skyline

Join me for a New York City weekend filled with luxe lingerie, boudoir, NYC skyline views and some surprises a long the way. I am very excited to announce the 2023 New York City Lingerie & Boudoir retreat, hosted by Brooklyn Boudoir and Sugar Cookies Lingerie!

While I love my Bushwick studio, the one thing it doesn't have is New York City skyline views. Many of my clients are hoping to get *THAT* shot which is no longer possible outside of a special event like this one. So to all of you who ask about the skyline shots, this event is for you!

The Event

It's no secret that Sugar Cookies is one of my favorite boutiques in the city. With each event we produce together, a group of tightly knit, like-minded women is born!  These past events together have been so popular, we've decided to step it up a notch and offer an epic New York City lingerie & photoshoot experience!

Who is this event for?

 This is an amazing way to test the waters of boudoir photography if you’ve been curious to try it, or to refresh your collection. You’ll also connect with other women and get some epic photos with a stunning New York City backdrop.  
Most of my special events are limited to past clients only, but this experience is open to all women, regardless if we have previously worked together.  Out-of-towners, local New Yorkers, women of all ages: if you want to spend a weekend celebrating yourself in the world's greatest city, this event is for you!

What you can expect

  • A welcome reception to get to know each other, form connections, and enjoy camaraderie with a small group of like-minded women.

  • A salon-style talk with Stephanie, Susanne and Samantha Rose about all things lingerie, boudoir & confidence (and how they are all related).

  • A private lingerie shopping experience at Sugar Cookies Lingerie NYC.

  • A 45-minute boudoir shoot in your new lingerie at the Wythe Hotel in Williamsburg Brooklyn, featuring one of the best views of the iconic NYC skyline.

  • A group dinner and burlesque show at one of the city's classiest (and sexiest!) venues.

  • Special offers and early access to future events (trust me, this is going to be BIG)!

Tentative Schedule

Friday August 4

Evening welcome reception, bubbly and salon talk at Sugar Cookies

Saturday August 5
Private lingerie shopping appointments at Sugar Cookies boutique
Free time in NYC with Stephanie & Susanne's recommendations and favorite places as a guide
Dinner and a burlesque show at one of the city's classiest (and sexist!) venues

Sunday August 6
45-minute private boudoir shoot at the Wythe Hotel, featuring the NYC skyline and YOU in your new lingerie
Breakfast or Lunch, Sparkling wine, light treats
Sunset meet-up at the Wythe Hotel Rooftop Bar

The Extras

In addition to all of the above, you will also receive 10+ fully-retouched digital boudoir images in a downloadable online gallery, a behind-the-scenes video, plus other surprises and special treats.

Pricing

All of the above + other surprises: $2049

Blond woman sits on bed with NYC skyline in background

The Small Print

50% due upon booking. Balance due 10 days before the start of the event.
Lingerie Purchases, transportation, and lodging not included.
Hair and Makeup Artist for your shoot is not included, but available as a $200 add-on if desired.
A block of hotel rooms will be put on hold for those coming in from out of town- please inquire. The earlier the better - availability is limited.

We can't wait to see you and enjoy a weekend of celebrating your best, most confident self in New York City!

Frequently Asked Questions

How is this different than other Brooklyn Boudoir Experiences?

The typical Brooklyn Boudoir Experience takes place at my studio in Bushwick, Brooklyn and lasts 3 hours from start to finish. While I love it there, I do sometimes miss the days that I photographed women at hotels. This event will span over three days, but you will also have plenty of downtime. Your boudoir shoot will take place at the Wythe Hotel last approximately 45 minutes and we’ll capture 1 -2 lingerie looks. So while your shoot will be shorter than the usual Brooklyn Boudoir Experience, we will be spending more time together over the course of the weekend talking, socializing and having fun

Is Hair and Makeup Included?

No, hair and makeup is not included, but can be added on for an additional $200.

What if I am coming in from out of town?

You are welcome to join! We will be putting a block of rooms on hold for those coming in from out of town, so please inquire! Each day, you can plan to spend 1-3 hours with us at our various events, but the rest of the time you will be free to explore NYC.

How many photos will I get?

You will receive a minimum of 10 photos.

Are meals included?

Dinner on Saturday night and brunch on Sunday are included. Snacks and bubbly will be available throughout. You will be on your own for all other meal

Will there be more events in the future?

Yes! We have lots of other ideas for retreats in the works. However, each retreat will be completely unique with different offerings to keep things fresh. So the next retreat will not be at the Wythe Hotel… it may not even be in New York! ;)

How can I stay in the know?

Be sure to follow along our social media to learn about our future events: @brooklynboudoir @sugarcookiesnyc

Woman in lace robe with NYC skyline in background